DON’T ask me if I’m worried this is “just a phase”. We all go through phases. I ratted my bangs and wore Z. Cavaricci pants. But I also started a journal in first grade, started writing poetry by second, and joined the church choir so I could sing all the time. Not phases. My son being trans is not a phase. Not at two, not at six, and not today at the age of nine. By asking me, it not only invalidates my decision, as a parent, to support my son, but also my son’s gender identity. And while we’re at it, DON’T ask if I’m worried he’ll change his mind. He never made his mind up to be trans; this is how he was born. And as he grows and matures, if he learns new things about himself and his identity, about his place in the world and how he fills it, that don’t match who and what he is now, I will still support him. I’m not worried in the least, because life is not a straight line from point A to point B.
Hey transmasculine and gender-variant folx! If you wear a chest binder, I made an Android app that you can use! It reminds you to take off your binder at the end of the day and also to stretch out your back during the day. You can find it in the Google Play store here.
If you’re having issues with it, or have any feedback for me, I’d love if you could email me at binder.reminder.team@gmail.com. And if you like it, feel free to rate and review it!
EDIT July 9, 2016: I’ve created a news blog for the app to keep you all posted about updates to it and any news about an iPhone app as well. It’s at binder-reminder.tumblr.com
So this was never something id like to share with the world but im desperate so i dont have much choice. On saturday June 24th I decided it was time to tell my family about my being bisexual and sadly like my many other kids i was not welcomed with open arms due to their strong christian background. So i was given a little bit to collect some belongs and my dog and was told to leave and not to come back until im normal. Well it just so happen that that night i while i was driving around for an hour looking for a secluded neighbourhood to sleep i kept noticing a noise when i would brake and the next day it was predominantly worse so today (monday) i took my car to a shop and asked them to tell me what was wrong. So now not only am i homeless but i also need new brakes and full rotors for my front which will be about $750 and considering that the only form of income i can get is from driving uber right now im kind of screwed. So im trying to drive it as little as possible because im not sure if they’ll work when they get worse or not. So im making this in hopes that i can get some help to pay for this and then have some money for food and a small storage unit to put my stuff while i go work for uber because as of right now i only have $52 in my bank. Please i promise that any little bit helps. Thank you and God bless.
